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you made the first move đź’¬
you've reached out to people through matching — that's the part we know least about. how you pick who to write to, what happens next, how it feels when it goes quiet. seven short questions, no wrong answers.
when you're looking through the matching cards, how do you decide who to send a request to? what do you look at?
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what did you think of the people you were shown — was there enough variety, and enough info about each person to decide?
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what do you usually say or do first, and why that?
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what happened after your requests — did people reply, and how did those conversations go?
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when someone doesn't reply or declines, how does that feel, and does it change what you do next?
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what would make it easier to start talking to someone you matched with?
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anything else about reaching out to people on yope? (optional)
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